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Saturday, May 18, 2024
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Just thinking of the sweetness, the giggles, the dedication, and compassion of Alison. What a lovely and special soul. I still can't believe she is gone. Sending so much love to her family and especially her son and husband. i know how much she loved you, and how much she loved her congregation, her Gaelic and other community, her Jamily, her friends. She emanated love. Miss you dear Alison. Rest in peace and power, my friend.
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Wednesday, March 6, 2024
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Dear Tom,
We are holding you, your son, and the spirit of your wife in The Light during this time of sorrow. Alison clearly impacted the world in beautiful & impressive ways. We are saddened by this deep loss.
In Friendship,
Canadian Friends Service Committee (Quakers)
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Julia Horne Lenaghan lit a candle
Monday, March 4, 2024
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Incredible what this young lady has accomplished in her short life. I just happened upon this and feel so sad for the community and family. Regards, Julia Lenaghan, Saint Andrews United Church member, Cochrane , Alberta
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Terry O'Toole posted a condolence
Monday, March 4, 2024
Dear Tom And Oluszek,
Reading about Alison's life was pure goosebumps. So much dynamism and gifts to the world in such a short lifetime!
Shalom!!
Terry O'Toole
North Grant, Antigonish County
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Sylvia Burrow posted a condolence
Thursday, February 29, 2024
Please accept my deepest sympathy, Tom.
I found Alison to be a truly beautiful soul. I am sure she leaves you with the most precious of memories that will live with you and Oliver.
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Ed. Barre posted a condolence
Monday, February 26, 2024
Dear Tom and family:
We are very sorry to hear of the passing of Alison and we offer our deepest condolences. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult of moments.
Ed., Kazimiera and family
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Bruce and Sharon Phillips posted a condolence
Sunday, February 25, 2024
Deepest Sympathies to Tom and Oliver and all of Alison,s family.Alison was our minister at St.Andrews United Church Baddeck Forks before we had to close and amalgamate with Middle River United in 2018. You both attended our first community meeting to try to figure out what to do with our church which was declining very fast.We we’re very fortunate to have Alison for a Minister,so we’re greatly saddened to hear of her passing.Sharon&Bruce Phillips
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Elfreda Veinot lit a candle
Sunday, February 25, 2024
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David and Robin: I was so saddened to hear of the passing of your wonderful daughter. From her tributes, she sure accomplished a lot in her very short life. Her accomplishments have truly left a wonderful legacy for her life. Remember all the great and happy memories that you have with her and she will be as close as a thought. You are all in the thoughts and prayers of many and may this help ease the terrible pain and loss you are feeling now.
Elfreda Veinot and Paul Oickle
Middle Cornwall
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Barb and Bruce Henderson donated to THE DAVID SUZUKI FOUNDATION
Sunday, February 25, 2024
Dear Cathy,
I cannot find the words other than to say that our hearts are broken for you and your family.
~ Barb and Bruce
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E.Margaret MacDonald posted a condolence
Sunday, February 25, 2024
Sending sincere sympathy to David,Cathy,Tom,Oliver and family at this sad time of deep untimely loss. I recall hearing Rev. Allie sing in Gaelic at a service in St.Ann's, before realizing who she was. What a fine legacy of charity, compassion and service she has left. May fond memories of happy family times shared bring you comfort and ease your grief.
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Catherine M Pead posted a condolence
Sunday, February 25, 2024
It was with unbelievable sadness and deepest sympathy that your friends at Concerned Lay Catholics in Canada learned of Allison’s tragic and untimely passing. Dear Tom, although we never had the privilege of meeting Alison, you always spoke so lovingly of her and your beautiful son Oliver, we feel as if we did. May comfort, courage and strength be God’s gifts to you and in time may gratitude turn the pain of separation into tranquil joy. May Alison rest in eternal light and peace.
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John MacEachern posted a condolence
Sunday, February 25, 2024
Tom
My condolences at this most difficult time.
Your loss of such a life partner can only be dealt with by memories of the fact that you were able to share your time with her.
My prayers are with you and your son.
John MacEachern
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Mary C. MacPherson posted a symbolic gesture
Sunday, February 25, 2024
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I have already said in more than one place where Alison’s obit was posted of how impressed I’ve been by her whenever I had the pleasure to hear her speak. At first I thought she was a student until she was introduced as a clergy. She was not only sweet and charming, but sincere, knowledgeable , thoughtful and brimming with spirituality. I know I am not alone in my admiration for her as she was very inspiring. We have all been blessed to have experienced her impact and I know her loss is great. God rest her sweet soul and comfort all her loved ones with their wonderful memories of a life well lived.
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Anne Leckie posted a condolence
Saturday, February 24, 2024
So sorry to hear of the passing of this amazing woman. Tom and Oliver all our best to you as you navigate your loss, words cannot express our sorrow. Anne Leckie and Marc Johnston
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Barry Smith posted a condolence
Saturday, February 24, 2024
To Tom and Family:
Sorry to hear of Allison passing, she left her mark.
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Saturday, February 24, 2024
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Donated to the David Suzuki Foundation in memory of Allie, a loving, kind and generous soul. May her light continue to shine upon us.
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Nancy Murray donated to ATLANTIC SCHOOL OF THEOLOGY
Saturday, February 24, 2024
In memory, Rev. Alison Etter. One person. Huge impact.
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Jonathan Sztuka donated to ATLANTIC SCHOOL OF THEOLOGY
Saturday, February 24, 2024
Dear Tom, With our deepest sympathy for the loss of your wife Alison and your father Joe. Sending our prayers and thoughts to you, Oliver and Alison's family - Jonathan Sztuka and Stephanie Semenuk
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Jane Keller posted a condolence
Saturday, February 24, 2024
Dear, Tom , Oliver and Family,
I am truly sorry for you profound loss.
There is a lovely memory of Alison that I have and would like to share with you. One Easter Alison played a selection on her flute. When I heard her talented playing I felt it was like an angel had descended on us and the Holy Spirit was in the room, that's how deeply her music resonated with me. Also, the angelic facial expressions she displayed while playing was inspirational and I felt her love and her caring coming right from her heart to all of us listening. I can close my eyes and still remember how peaceful and calm she made me feel through sharing her gift of talent .We can't know or always understand God's plans but I can think of a saying that applies to Alison and it is "Only the good die young" Sincere Sympathy. Alison will be greatly missed! Jane Keller
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Pierre Vaillancourt posted a condolence
Saturday, February 24, 2024
Dear Tom, I'm so sorry to hear abou the loss of Alison, she seemed like a very kind and compassionate soul. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,
Pierre Vaillancourt
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Kathy Chalupowski posted a condolence
Saturday, February 24, 2024
Cathy,
After reading the newspaper articles and the obituary of your dearest, Alison, I feel the whole world is at loss for not knowing her. I know I feel that way.
What a tremendous legacy of love, compassion and outreach Alison lived. A truly exceptional person, minister, wife, friend, mother and your daughter.
I cannot imagine your loss, Cathy...and I sincerely send my heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Kathy Chalupowski
Bridgewater
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Tom Penney posted a condolence
Saturday, February 24, 2024
To Tom, Oliver, family and friends I wish to express my sincere condolences. I was part of the Newman House Board with Alison - one of her many community causes. May the Spirit, the Comforter, be with you at this time and may the faith you shared with Alison sustain you at this time.
Tom Penney
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Mary MacLeod posted a condolence
Saturday, February 24, 2024
I am sending my sincere sympathy to Tom, Oliver, and all of Alison’s family and friends. I knew Alison in Baddeck when she was chair of the Victoria County Hospice Society and I was the Palliative Care nurse. Her compassion, faith, and understanding of life’s journeys are what I remember most. She was a true Christian woman who lived her faith every day.
May she rest safely in God’s hands.
Mary MacLeod
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Suzanne MacLeod posted a condolence
Saturday, February 24, 2024
Dear Tom, I am so very sorry for the loss of your dear wife, Alison. She was a lovely lady, who I always saw such kindness and gentleness in. She had such a beautiful smile, as well. I always loved seeing you both at different special events I attended at St. Mary's Polish Church. I admired how you both worked together as a beautiful team serving and helping people with so much gladness and joy. Truly God brought you together and blessed others, as well, thru your union. May the Lord be ever so near you, little Oliver and Alison's parents, family and friends during this very difficult time.
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Carol Ann Sheppard-Taylor posted a symbolic gesture
Friday, February 23, 2024
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Tom, Oliver and Family~~There are no words to properly express the heartbreak I feel on the loss of your beloved wife Alison and Oliver's cherished Mom. An incredible young woman gone far, far too soon. May her legacy continue to shine on you all. With my sincere condolences, may Alison Rest in Eternal Peace.
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Shaunna Snow posted a condolence
Friday, February 23, 2024
Dear Tom, Oliver, parents, extended families and friends
I had the privilege of getting to know Alison during her time at Knox United. She was certainly wise beyond the short years she spent on this earth. Her Sunday services included meaningful, thought-provoking sermons that would resonate with me during the week ahead and music that filled the church with joy. For one hour each week, I could step away from the busyness of life and be inspired by her words. Alison had the voice of an angel, and I once even asked her to teach me to sing, she chuckled thinking I wasn’t serious.
I am deeply sorry for your great loss; you are in my thoughts. Rest in Peace Dear Alison.
Shaunna Snow
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Anne Vaughn posted a condolence
Friday, February 23, 2024
Was always a pleasure to see her when home to her mom’s and the precious little boy. Hearing you playing the piano was enjoying, grinned every time.
Rest in peace Anne,Carl and Luke
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Fr. Bedford Doucette posted a condolence
Friday, February 23, 2024
Dear Tom,
I join your many relatives and friends in extending my sympathies and condolences, care and concern, friendship and prayer for your wife, you and your son. Alison was quite a woman! A gift to all of us. May she be enjoying peace in the arms of her Lord.
God bless you,
Fraternally
Fr. Bedford Doucette
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Mel Bryden posted a condolence
Friday, February 23, 2024
Dear Tom my heart is broken to hear of Alison’s passing my thoughts and prayers are with you and your son Oliver you will remain forever in my heart
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Matthew Ponsford posted a condolence
Friday, February 23, 2024
I was profoundly sad to hear of Alison's passing last week - so many volunteer colleagues in the Amnesty International Canada community are deeply heartbroken when we reflect on the immense passion, commitment, empathy, and energy Alison devoted to all of her life pursuits. I was overwhelmed reading her obituary to learn of the sheer number of people, communities and organizations she devoted enormous amounts of time and energy to; causes I know she felt deeply connected to & passionate about.
Alison and I attended many events, Annual General Meetings (AGMs) (also as Amnesty "fieldworkers") and rallies connected with Amnesty International and other social justice/community-centered initiatives over the years in the Halifax area, and elsewhere across Canada. Some pictures and recollections of these moments are captured in numerous photos uploaded to this Tribute Book for Alison.
I will always remember Alison's humble, quiet and non-judgmental spirit and presence. She treated everyone with immense respect and dignity and did not seek external validation or recognition for her many contributions. She never preached or pushed her own beliefs onto others, but was never shy to share her opinion, and was always open to new perspectives and insights. She continuously gave selflessly and could always be relied upon, as a trusted friend, mentor, colleague, or activist.
One fond memory I have from many years ago was visiting Alison when she was working at Greenwood United Church in Baddeck, NS. An Amnesty International colleague and I rented a car for a road trip from Halifax to Cape Breton Island and had arranged to stop in to see Alison as part of our trip.
We greeted Alison where she was then living (across the street from Greenwood United Church on Twining St.) and could hear her singing upstairs as we entered. The acoustics were magical and my colleague and I looked at each other with a mix of delight and surprise that we had captured this spontaneous moment of Alison's quiet & simple life in small-town Baddeck. Alison gave us a short tour of the Church and adjoining social space across the street from where she lived, provided some recommendations in the area, and we were on our way. It was so nice to see Alison in her humble abode, away from the "big city" of Halifax, for even a short while.
Alison had a quiet and sweet sense of humor and could relate to everyday anecdotes of the people and personalities we observed around us, but again, always with a non-judgmental attitude and a very open mind.
I will miss Alison's warm demeanor, humble presence, selfless leadership and grace. She contributed so much to the people she knew, appreciated and loved, and the communities she served will be forever grateful for her countless contributions (there are far too many to recount).
As another Amnesty colleague put it so poignantly upon hearing the news of Alison's passing: "...[I] recall her so naturally & genuinely exuding goodness [...] What a richly, beautifully lived life. What a gift for all of us to have shared a small part of Alison's journey. How deeply her loss will be felt by so very many." Another colleague stated that "She really was so special. It's profoundly sad that she's gone."
My sincere thoughts go out to her loving family and close friends, her mother Catherine Etter (who I recall meeting many years ago), her husband Tom, young son Oliver, and all of the communities she cherished and served. We love and will miss you Alison.
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Judith Jeans posted a condolence
Friday, February 23, 2024
Dear Tom and Family,
Allison touched so many lives during her very short life. She will certainly be missed. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this sad time.
Judy and Ralph Jeans
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Rita Kubat posted a condolence
Friday, February 23, 2024
I did not know Alison but I do know her husbands mom. I read the obituary and was taken back by all she she had done in such a short life. She certainly has a nice place in heaven. Hopefully her accomplishments and love will get her husband and son through this difficult time.
R.I.P Alison
Rita Kubat
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Pat Lenethen posted a condolence
Friday, February 23, 2024
So many memories, but the most vivid one was Alison singing and playing a song she wrote about her grandmother (my mother, Cora Etter) at her funeral. Both her words and her voice were so beautiful.
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Valerie Lawson posted a condolence
Thursday, February 22, 2024
To Kit and all of Alison's family and friends, so sorry for the loss of your dear daughter.
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Debbie Etter lit a candle
Thursday, February 22, 2024
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David, Cathy and Family. There is no pain like that of losing your daughter. She was special to so many. Our hearts grieve with yours in this tragic time.
Debbie & Stephanie Etter
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Liz Yorke posted a condolence
Thursday, February 22, 2024
Cathy - I am so very sorry to hear of your daughter's death. You must be so proud of her and of all her accomplishments - she is certainly a credit to you and David.
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Audrey and Clinton Dixon posted a condolence
Thursday, February 22, 2024
David, Cathy and Families of Alison Etter,
We are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your amazing Daughter Alison.
Alison,s journey of life was short but her impact was enormous,Her Spirit will continue with all those she encountered.
May the wonderful memories of her help at this difficult time, prayers to all .
Audrey and Clinton Dixon
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David Walker posted a condolence
Thursday, February 22, 2024
My sincere condolences to Cathy, Tom and family on Allison's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult time.
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Judy Cormier posted a condolence
Thursday, February 22, 2024
David, Cathy, Allison’s Husband, Son, Family and Friends:
My sincere condolences in Allison’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Judy (Williams) Cormier
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Maria M. Rudiuk posted a condolence
Thursday, February 22, 2024
Enjoy swimming with the whales! Alison!
In order to somehow orient ourselves in the world, we create a sense of meaning. From generation to generation, the correctness of human reasoning is developed. Alison's death makes no sense, her death violates our sense of meaning.
Alison, so much needed, so talented, hard-working, positive, good, loving and loved and... suddenly she is torn away from it all, she starts to get sick, suffers and dies. This death is absurd, inconceivable, unacceptable... biologically it shouldn't have happened either...
And life continues, although different than "before". Those who remain must return to "normality", each their own way, and they cannot forget: beyond death is the higher power of life. The search for meaning and the search for God continues. Sooner or later it's time to restrain our astonishment, indignation... anger...
But such a tragedy is like a reason to go one step further, one step deeper and a reason to see more clearly in our daily running what is IMPORTANT, what really keeps us alive.
And what "keeps us alive" is what builds us, what nurtures our fragile lives, what allows us to fight for survival despite everything, to feel our own life and empathize with others, and above all, the great daily work of saving incredibly sensitive life...
Each of us does this work in our own way. And this is "work" thanks to which we reach horizons that transcend us, that have the ability to lead us "further". This work has no end. This is a task, each one's own and common to all. This daily effort of small steps begins an infinitely "long journey" into the --- future; this journey allows the most defenseless beings in the world - like Oluszek - to grow and from defenseless to become strong, firmly standing on the Earth, under the sky strewn with stars have the ability to remember the toils and beauty of his mother's work, keep the memory of her life like a precious treasure.
Our deepest condolences to Tomek and the entire family,
Maria M. Rudiuk and the whole family
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Karen Blair posted a condolence
Thursday, February 22, 2024
So very sorry to hear of Alison's passing. She was obviously a great force in community life, and a truly remarkable person. Sincere condolences to Tom, their beloved son and all those who loved and cherished her.
Kind regards,
Karen Blair
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Donna MacKay-Moss posted a condolence
Thursday, February 22, 2024
Dear Tom & Family: Alison was wonderfully comforting to us when we were all home in the 'Bay for our dad's funeral, which couldn't be held in Knox at the time; and then his interment that followed later. She was a friend and contributor to the Pictou Co. "Gaels", and will be sorely missed by all who knew and associated with her. Deepest condolences to you and yours, and know that you are in everyone's kindest thoughts.
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Sandra Miller posted a condolence
Thursday, February 22, 2024
David, Cathy and Family
So sorry to hear of Alison passing. She was a gift from God and sounds like she touched so many people and I am sure her memory will live on. Our hearts and prayers goes out to all her family
Sandra & Brian Miller
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Eileen Nearing posted a condolence
Thursday, February 22, 2024
I had never met Rev Etter, however, she was a person who I wish I had known.
She accomplished so much in her short time ! My deepest sympathy to her husband and family.
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Thursday, February 22, 2024
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Dear Tom, on behalf of President of Wałbrzych, dr Roman Szełemej, I would like to express our deepest condolences. Mr President expressed his grief in the letter I am enclosing.
Arek
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Sister Mary Shaw posted a condolence
Thursday, February 22, 2024
My deepest condolences to the family, friends, parishoners and all who knew Allison. I grew up near Warden United... A power house...Still trying and you have been there to support Rev Allison, go with the Lord and rejoice! Ministry well done. My assurance of prayer for all. Gratefully for your witness, Dr. Sister Mary Shaw, ASC, D. Min, Springfield, Illinois, USA formerly from good old New Aberdeen. R.I. P.
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Rita MacDonald posted a condolence
Thursday, February 22, 2024
To Tom:
Deepest sympathy at this hardest of times to you, Oliver and family on the very sad loss of Alison, a much loved wife, mother, daughter, colleague, friend and so much more. Her light will always shine.
May you find comfort and peace in the many wonderful memories of your time together.
In sadness,
Rita MacDonald
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Lorna MacDonald posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 21, 2024
I am so very sorry to read of Alison's untimely death. She was a strong support when she was at Greenwood United in Baddeck allowing The Bells of Baddeck cast to rehearse at the church - we felt so welcomed by her and the congregation. When I learned that she moved to Glace Bay, I knew what a force for good she would be there as well. Seeing her joy in pictures with her beautiful son and husband was a treat, and a reminder of her gracious and generous spirit. My deepest condolences to her family. May her light shine in you and for you, always. Sincerely, Lorna MacDonald (Toronto and Port Morien)
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Allan and Marion McIntosh posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 21, 2024
We are deeply saddened by your loss and wish we could be present to share in Alison's memorial service. We remember her at our piano playing Christmas carols at the ministers' party, and her ministry and leadership in the church. To Tom and all her family we wish to say how sorry we are to be away and not express this in person.
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Kim Geldart Geldart posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 21, 2024
Cathy,David and family.
It has been a long time since my days with you at Shubenacadie Drug Store but I have always treasured those days .
You had such a wonderful daughter - It is just so sad that she has departed at such a young age but she has accomplished so much in the time she was with us - it is a testament to you both! My thoughts and prayers go to you both and her husband and child - God bless you all
Kim Geldart
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David Sollows for Beacon United Church posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 21, 2024
Sincere Sympathy to Tom, Oliver and all of the people touched by Alison's love and thoughtfulness. I was fortunate enough to be at Maritime Conference when Alison was ordained. Her incredible way of reaching out to others was a gift that will remain an example to the rest of us to carry her love forward into the world. Her remarkable list of accomplishments is a testament to the kind of person she was. Please know we hold you in our hearts and prayers in the days ahead as you begin a new path ahead. May her spirit be with you always.
Beacon United Church, Yarmouth
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Wednesday, February 21, 2024
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Louise Renault posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 21, 2024
I am so very sorry for your loss, Tom and family. What a hard loss of someone who sounds just like the kind of person we need in this world. Sending love and strength to you all.
Louise Renault
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Joan Doherty posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 21, 2024
I heard Alison give a beautiful eulogy at her Aunt Beth's funeral and have never forgotten it. Alison was so gifted and she was a channel for peace above all. My deep sympathy to Kitty and all the family and friends.
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elizabeth mcmichael posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 21, 2024
I remember the day Allison, a sprite of a baby, entered her family home in Gay's River. How proud her parents were!
My husband Alex Morrison and I send our sympathies to Cathy, David and Tom.
Elizabeth McMichael
elizmcm@mail.com
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Nancy Langille posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 21, 2024
Words can't describe how Alison's family is feeling at this difficult time.
My thoughts and prayers are with you
Wayne and Nancy Langille
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pat macphee posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 21, 2024
Etter family,
So sorry for your loss. Way too early.
God Bless
Pat (Gordon) MacPhee
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Darlene Carter Garden posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
So very sorry your loss ❤️ may memories carry you through this difficult time .
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Lydia Adams posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Dear Tom, Oliver, Alison's parents, family and friends - I am so very sorry for your immense loss.
I just met Alison once, but could see that she was full of light. She was a very special person.
Please accept my deepest condolences -
Lydia Adams
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Dina Epale, Offah Obale and Denise Siele donated to ATLANTIC SCHOOL OF THEOLOGY
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Dear Tom, Offah Obale, Denise Siele and i send our deepest condolences to you and your family at this time of tremendous grief. We were deeply saddened hear about Alison's passing while in Cape Breton for the trip that your we worked very hard from conception to final plans. Alison's legacy lives on through the wonderful work she did and will continue to do through the Rev. Alison Etter Memorial Fund. Our thoughts and prayers also go to your and your family as you also mourn the loss of your dad.
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Linda Hill lit a candle
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
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Alison truly was imbued with the Holy Spirit, whatever you choose to call it. During many conversations we had during our trips from Middle River to far-flung churches to attend Presbytery, I came to respect her intelligence, pragmatism, and humour. On one occasion, she told me how much she hoped to be a mother but feared "the clock was running out". I was delighted to reassure her that my 39-year-old daughter-in-law had recently given birth to my first beautiful grandson. Somewhat later, she shared with me how very impressed she had been with a first date with an unnamed fellow. I think we can guess who that was! I had the honour of attending their wedding at Greenwood. Alison and Tom were so happy that day, and ever after. Their pride and joy, Oliver, is the realization of their dreams. My sincere condolences to Tom and both families. Alison was much loved and will be missed. Linda Hill
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David McKillop posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
David and Family:
My thoughts are with you as all of you struggle with the profound too soon loss of such a wonderful, capable woman. Although I never knew her, the obituary painted in my mind a picture of the beautiful person she was inside and out.
Heartfelt Sympathies,
David
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Tuesday, February 20, 2024
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Tom,
I am beyond heartbroken for you my friend. She was simply the very best there was, for you, for your son, for everyone. All of my family fondly remembers the Polish dinner and dancing you both took us to when we were there the last time. I wish you the healing that will eventually come. Stephen, Laurie, Malaika, and Nadarra Collette
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Jim Abraham posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Tom, I just read the heartbreaking news regarding the passing of Alison. While I never had the pleasure of meeting her, I am touched by the so many contributions she made to family, to faith communities and social justice. She certainly left a legacy, and many wonderful memories.
I am so sorry for your loss; praying for you, your son, and Alison's parents.
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Lloyd Nyarota posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Allison was a loving and friendly person. I first met Allison in 2018 as members of the United Church of Canada: Theology, Inter-Church, Inter-faith commission. She was always the smiling friendly presence. Open and sensitive to the feelings and needs of others. Alison recognized every person in the room with joy, care and love.
Alison will always be missed as a wise chairperson of the commission and her intelligent, wise and faithful leadership.
May she rest in eternal peace as she swim with the Whales.
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Wayne Fiander posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
If there were Saints in the United Church of Canada, she would be first in line. If there were community leadership awards, she would be recognized every year. If there is a heaven, she sits at the right hand of Christ. Alison's spirit will be greatly missed and I truly hope she is swimming with the whales.
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Deb Hawkes posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Cathy, Dave, Robin and family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Reading through these messages of condolence and memories, I can see that Alison was a strong and compassionate leader who devoted herself to many. Knowing you, I have no doubt about the huge role you as her family played in her ability and desire to do this. Her caring and contribution of love and concern for this world will be remembered by many who in turn are inspired by her example. Please let that give you peace and hope as you and the community cope with this huge loss. My love and condolences to you. Deb Hawkes
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Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Dear Cathy,
We are holding you in our hearts during the unimaginably difficult time and are so sorry for your loss. How proud you must be as the mother of a woman who made a difference in the lives of so many. Please don't hesitate to ask for support. Sending big hugs and love your way.
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Adrian White posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
My deepest condolences Tom on the loss of your dear spouse Allison. She was such a lovely, gentle soul who brought joy to her surroundings and those that she touched. She will be sadly missed by all that knew her.
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Erin Storer posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Allison and I were childhood friends that lived 4 doorsteps apart in Shubenacadie, Nova Scotia. As young girls we attended church together and enjoyed small-town life and all the luxury it affords. Nearly breaking our necks sledding behind my house in winter months and summer nights tenting behind hers. She was my very first best friend.
I have so many memories of those days. But most of all, when I think of Allie I knew her to be thoughtful, studious, and kind.
We lost touch over the years. However, reading all the the heartfelt tributes from those that knew her best, it sounds like she carried all the wonderful traits she held as a girl into adulthood.
I was heartbroken to hear of Allie’s passing and my thoughts immediately went to David, Cathy, Robyn and of course Tom and Oluszek (who I regretfully have not met).
All of my sympathies during this time. Loss is always hard. But the loss of a person like Allie, with all her amazing qualities and gifts, is surely the hardest of all.
- Erin
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Ian MacInnis posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Tom,
The Sydney Curling Club is so sorry to hear of your loss. Wishing you peace during this difficult time.
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Greg and Linda Wentzel donated to ATLANTIC SCHOOL OF THEOLOGY
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Cathy: Our hearts go out to you. We know how much you loved your daughter and spoke of her often with pride. She will live on in her son and we know that you will be very much present in his life. If you need friendship and a cup of tea we are here for you and please don't hesitate to call when needed.
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Carl and Cathy Longard posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
We unfortunately had not had the pleasure of meeting Rev. Alison, but are quickly learning what a beautiful, talented and compassionate person she was. We both worked for the Etter family in their pharmacies in Shubenacadie and Elmsdale. Sending our heartfelt sympathy to all the families grieving the loss of Alison.
Carl and Cathy Longard
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Jean posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Oh so very sad. We remember Alison as a little girl in the Shubenacadie area. She went on to become an outstanding minister, among other talents. Blessings to her folks, and of course to her spouse and son. Bruce and Jean King
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Stella Lord posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
I didn’t know Alison, but I just read her obituary because I’m also a student at AST and know her husband Tom whom I had the privilege of sharing a couple of classes with. What an inspiration Alison must have been to those she loved, worked and ministered with. I send my deep condolences to her husband Tom and all her loved ones. Her life of joy and service will be an inspiration to many for many years to come. I will be adding to the AST fund established in her name. god bless and keep you Tom and all her loved ones. Stella.
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Mary White posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
David and Cathy, I remember you visiting Tony and l in our home in Elmsdale, before adopting Alison, we had adopted our son Geoffrey, you had questions, we told of our love for our son. You certainty raised an amazing daughter. So sorry for your loss. Just read her obit, l wish l had known her. I have a wonderful, kind loving son who is 46 now. Sincerest Condolences to you, David, Cathy and her husband and your Grandson. I lost my Tony in 2007. May your wonderful memories are comforting at this sad time.
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Peter Oickle posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Tom and family. So saddened to hear of Alison's passing. I remember her as a student at Mahone Bay when I was principal there. Always looking out for the less fortunate. She will leave a big hole. May her memory always walk with you.
Peter and Virginia Oickle
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Jill Rafuse posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
I knew Alison when she was a student minister at St. Matthew’s United in Halifax. It was heart-warming to meet a young woman with her intelligence and dedication who had chosen ministry as her career path despite the many, many less demanding careers available to her. She showed such promise then, and it is obvious that she had enormous capacity for leadership and community buiding even though she had barely entered mid-life. What a tragic loss for her family and the community she served. Sincere condolences to all.
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Angela Doiron posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Dear Tom and Oliver,
Please accept our deepest condolences for the loss of dear Alison. Everytime we saw her she had a smile on her face. I know you will continue to see that smile when you look at sweet Oliver. Sending you and your family our love and support during this most difficult time.
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Eva van de Riet posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 20, 2024
Our sincere condolences to Dave and Kit and Alison's family.
I remember her sweetness and caring for all back when she was little. The boys always had fun with her for birthday parties, at the cottage or camping in Keji.
The world is a better place for her being in it, she will be missed sorely, but also she has left a legacy and a love that will never quit.
Jack, Eva, Micheal, and Matthew van de Riet
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Fraser posted a condolence
Monday, February 19, 2024
I went to University of Ottawa with Alison and was a member of the ivcf chapter with her and volunteered with best buddies working with Larche in Ottawa. Alison always demonstrated grace, gentleness and a loving spirit. My condolences to her family and community. I pray God's peace on you in this time.
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Nadine Raza posted a condolence
Monday, February 19, 2024
I met Alison when working in l'Arche taking care of people with disabilities. I just arrived from France. I didn't know anyone and was a bit homesick. One evening, Alison who was new too called at the house I was leaving in to invite me to the movies. Even though my english wasn't great and her french either at that time, we came along the minute we've met. When she went back to Halifax, I was skeptical when she said we'll keep in touch. But she kept all her promisses. She even visited me in Europe and we've had an amazing time! Thanks for the laughter, the girls trip, the endless conversations, the prayers. You were my very first true friend in Canada and God know I am not opening up that easily. But with your patience, your kindness and your wisdom anyone would be your friend. I am so grateful to have known you. I will keep your beautiful son Oliver, your loving husband and your family in prayer. May the Lord help and support them in that difficult time. Even though I am happy to know you are free of pain now, my heart is aching knowing the world will be missing you. I love you Alison
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Krista Longard posted a condolence
Monday, February 19, 2024
Our family is deeply heartbroken to learn our world no longer has beautiful Alison in it. Alison has played a special role during so many wonderful times in our lives…. As a youth sharing her musical gifts with our congregation, as a kind brilliant student that I was blessed to teach, as an accepting and inspiring leader for my daughter’s confirmation classes, and as the minister performing a beautiful wedding ceremony for our son Isaac as he married Katie. We will never forget Alison’s giving spirit and her generous loving kindness for all.
We give our deepest condolences to her loving family, Tom, Oliver, Cathy, David and Robin.
With love Krista, Gary, Hanna, Isaac & Katie Longard
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Kenneth MacAulay donated to ATLANTIC SCHOOL OF THEOLOGY
Monday, February 19, 2024
In loving memory of our niece Alison. Forever in our hearts.
Ken and Indra
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I want to extend my deepest sympathy to Allison's family and especially to her husband Tom and their dear son. My heart breaks for you all. Such an amazing life well lived serving and doing God's work. So many lives have been touched by this beautiful soul and may her legacy carry on. May God comfort you all in the days ahead and know that we all share in your pain. God bless you all. And may she rest in peace.
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Sheila Preiss posted a condolence
Monday, February 19, 2024
David, cathy and Tom. So very sorry to hear of Allison’s passing. Sending prayers and love
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Jacquelyn Scott posted a condolence
Monday, February 19, 2024
I did not have the joy of knowing Alison personally, Tom, but deeply admired her principles and actions on so many fronts. What a perfectly matched couple you must have been, and how fortunate that you will be able to share her legacy daily with Oliver! May the deep pain of your grief at her unfortunate loss grow into a further commitment to the ideals and compassion that you shared.
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Sr. Catherine MacFarrlane posted a condolence
Monday, February 19, 2024
My, love, sympathy and heart felt sorrow for her parents, husband, Tom and son and to the United Church Congregation for their great loss at this time. I knew Alison when we worked together on a committee to establish the Newman House as an ecumenical house for students to learn how to live, study, pray, and recreate together. She certainly will be missed by all who knew her love and passion for the life of the world!! Blessings, Sister Catherine MacFarlane
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Andrew posted a condolence
Monday, February 19, 2024
I recall Alison from when I lived at the Atlantic School of Theology, right by the shores of the Northwest Arm. Usually, I only ever saw her at a distance. Then one night at a social event, we chatted. She told me about her days in Winnipeg and about working with a young man who was trying to get out of a gang and avoid the dreadful fate that that path would ultimately entail. It was a simple conversation but I remember it well because Alison conveyed a passion for ministry, a kindness and a concern for others and a devotion to a career that she evidently saw as a calling. Halifax can be dark and cavern-like in the winter when the sun seems to vanish behind thick dark clouds and a bitter wet chill sets in that can cut right through you. It got some of us down and it could deepen a sense of pervasive isolation. Yet, you could not help but notice, even just in passing, that Alison always seemed so cheerfully upbeat in a way that evidently provided a ray of sunshine that uplifted her peers. A member of my mom's extended family was an Anglican priest in Glace Bay in the 1970s. I have always heard fond accounts of the community and in that way it is comforting to find out that Alison made her home and her ministry there.
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I’m truly sorry to hear about the loss of Alison. Losing someone dear is never easy, and my heartfelt condolences go out to you and everyone affected by this loss. Tom may you find comfort in cherished memories and the support of loved ones during this difficult time.
Alison, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.
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Polonia Halifax Rulka posted a condolence
Monday, February 19, 2024
The deepest condolences from Polonia Halifax. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family.
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To Tom & family..On behalf of CCYO and myself...it is beyond words to properly express sympathy for your great loss. Her Spirit will live on within you & your child. Rest in Peace
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Piotr Szymaniec posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
I have been struck by the dreadful news that beloved wife of Tom passed away! Tom, all your Wałbrzych friends are with you in this difficult time!
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Gus Webb posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
I’m so sorry to hear of Allison’s passing. I knew her from the Music Festival circuit back in the South Shore through the school years. She was very talented, and always kind to fellow musicians. My condolences to her family.
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Katherine Harman posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Dear Cathy -
I heard today about your loss, I cannot imagine how difficult a time it is for you and your family. The obituary described your Alison beautifully such that I felt I almost knew her, and wish that I had had the opportunity. Know Cathy, that you are in my thoughts and when you return to the South Shore, I hope that I can support you somehow.
Love, Katherine (Treehouse Village Ecohousing).
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Reverend Margaret Sagar posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
My heartfelt condolences to you Tom, Oliver, Alison’s parents and your entire family. I first met Alison when she was a student at AST and I, an alumna of 1985, was on the Board of Governors. She also did her SFE at St. Matthews’s United Church where I worship in my retirement and where I recall meeting her mother. I was struck then by her joy in her faith and by her love and compassion for others. I was delighted to reconnect with her more recently in a zoom prayer time for Kairos prayers for reconciliation with the people of Mi’kma’ki at a time of violence and conflict. I appreciated Alison’s wisdom and thoughtfulness. I recall her joy when she shared with us that she was pregnant and we were thrilled by the arrival of Oliver. The photos of her baby and family on Facebook gave me much joy. Her death is a huge loss not only to you who loved her so dearly but to all with whom she worked and supported, loved and prayed with, sharing her special gifts with compassion and faithfulness. A huge loss to the UCC and to the world. May you cherish your precious memories and may God’s love comfort you in your grief. Rest In Peace and rise in glory, Alison.
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Loraine MacKenzie Shepherd donated to ATLANTIC SCHOOL OF THEOLOGY
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Dear Tom,
Nancy Pinnell and I (Loraine MacKenzie Shepherd) offer you and Oliver our deep compassion and prayerful support. May you find God's comfort upholding you in this most difficult time. May you also be strengthened by moments of Alison's love touching you, even in the ache of your loss.
We are sending you a personal card with fond memories of Alison, as well as a card from Augustine United Church with more memories from the congregation. Alison is fondly remembered for her internship ministry there in 2009-2010.
Loraine MacKenzie Shepherd and Nancy Pinnell have requested their donation go towards the Rev. Alison Etter Memorial Fund at the Atlantic School of Theology. The fund's purpose epitomizes Alison's passions.
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Sheila Van Schaick posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
I worked along side Allison in United Church Presbytery for many years, and enjoyed her heartfelt enthusiasm and kindness in everything she did. -Sheila Van Schaick
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Jane Doull posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
As a colleague of Alison’s, I never had the chance to live near her or work closely with her . But a few years ago in pandemic times she invited me to take part in an antiracism Beyond Words planning team ( involving all three Atlantic Regions of the United Church). which via Zoom oversaw a summer series of discussions on anti racism films . I saw at first hand her passion for justice , her knowledge and insight , her collaborative leadership skills and her generous , inclusive , invitational and joyful way of being . I think the last time I saw Alison was at a zoom gathering of the anti racism network last year . I very much hoped to get to know her better and work with her further on the issues we both cared about . This beautiful obituary reminds me that this was just one piece of her justice work, amazes me with all she accomplished and leaves me even sadder that she doesn’t get to keep offering all she still had to offer towards a better world . Condolences to Tom and Oliver and her parents and friends and church communities who are so deeply mourning. It feels as if we’ve lost a very bright light . May we all continue the work of love and justice and building bridges and caring for creation which so animated Alison .
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Adrian Wilson and Elizabeth Tait posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Tom, my friend, we are so saddened by this. Alison leaves a huge legacy of how to live a meaningful and compassionate life. Wishing you, Oliver, and family strength, now and in the days to come.
Adrian Wilson and Elizabeth Tait
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Heather McAllister donated to THE DAVID SUZUKI FOUNDATION
Sunday, February 18, 2024
To Alison's family and friends.
Our deepest sympathies on the loss of a shining light.
Heather McAllister & Larry Steinberg
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Laura Sauder donated to ATLANTIC SCHOOL OF THEOLOGY
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Alison and I first met as students attending the Canadian Theological Students' Conference. Just last year we reconnected when we both took part in a Moms in Ministry coaching co-hort. Her love for her family was so deep and so strong. I'm grateful to have known her. God's deep peace enfold you during this painful time.
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T. Winnie Odo posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Greetings Tom, Oliver and family, it is with a heavy heart that I attempt to put my thoughts to text about the love and respect I hold for all of you from the moment my life was blessed to have you in it. Alison's spirit will live on through the many souls she touched, especially the international community she welcomed while associated with the Newman Society as co-Chair. She not only welcomed them to Cape Breton but went above and beyond to meet them at the airport to greet them and get them settled in their new surroundings on the Esplanade at the Father Greg MacLeod home. I feel so blessed to know you Tom and Oliver and pray that you will lean on me for support if and when the going gets rough. Thoughts and prayers and much gratitude for sharing her with us over the years. May our Loving Creator wrap you gently within the folds of His Sacred Heart...
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Joan Versnel posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Dear Robin and family,
It has been some time since we have had a connection Robin but I wanted to send you condolences on this unimaginable loss. I have memories of stories you shared about your relationship with Alison. No truer love exists. Sending my thoughts and prayers to you, Dave and all of the family.
Joan Versnel
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Traci Smith donated to ATLANTIC SCHOOL OF THEOLOGY
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Dear Tom and family. Alison was a sweet and kind soul and it was such a pleasure to work with her. Sending much love and a big hug from Illinois, USA. This is an incomprehensible loss.
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Carolyn Bowne posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
At Greenwood United, from the choir loft, I remember how Alison's beautiful hair shone under the lights as she led services. She was so bright, articulate, creative and compelling.
Her capacity for ministering to people of all ages, and fostering a sense of community at all levels was inspiring. She was so young and so vital!
Her singing and flute solos were absolutely beautiful!
She led by example and soon after arriving here was well known and respected throughout the community.
Her relationship with you, Tom and your marriage thrilled the community. It was so much fun to attend the wedding and hear all about the party afterward!
Knowing how much you both hoped for a child, everyone loved hearing the news of your baby boy.
Tom, you are the perfect soul mate for Alison as she is for you. Oliver, I hope stories of your Mom and how much she loves you will never cease. I hope the love she gave to others will be showered upon you always.
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Dorothy Hill posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
I am very sorry for your loss of Allison and your father. May God gather you and your family in His Arms at your time of need!! She will be fondly remembered @ United Heritage Church. God Bless you all!!
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Fern Holloway posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Rev Alison was so very kind to us on our 50th anniversary, We had plans to renew our Wedding vows at Baddeck Forks but my husband had an injury and was not able to go there so Rev Alison came to Sydney and and did the ceremony at my Brother Ian Rice's home. That was 8 years ago July coming. She was such a kind, caring person who will be greatly missed. RIP
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Robert Coleman posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Dear Tom, Oliver, and family please accept our deepest sympathy, condolences, and prayers on the passing of Alison. Rest assured you are in our thoughts at this time. May God bless you all. Rev. Deacon Robert Coleman, Debra and Shannon.
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The Rev. Marian Lucas-Jefferies posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Dear Tom and family, I am so deeply saddened by your loss. It has been seven years since Alison and I landed more or less at the same time in Glace Bay to begin ministry in the community, Alison with the United Church and I with the Anglican Church. It took a few weeks before we had our feet under us and could meet, but it was a pleasure to serve in the same town at the same time and following my departure, to bump into each other in social justice circles. The inspiration that Alison offered continues on. Keeping you in my prayers, Marian
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Our deepest condolences to Tom and Oliver. May they both feel Alison’s love ,each and everyday!
Alison always put her best effort in whatever she was doing.Her sermons (reflections) were captivating!
I can honestly say without a doubt, she was the best minister,I have had the privilege of knowing.
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Beth Mac Lennan posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Dear Tom, Oliver, parents & family
Sincere sympathy in Allisons passing, such a shock of one so needed in this world. First meeting Allison you couldn’t ever forget her as her “ glow “ was infectious and when she spoke to you it was like you were the only person in the room. One so young to have accomplished so much and have touched so many is truly an amazing legacy. Fly high beautiful soul.
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Patricia Paruch posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Dear Tom and Family,
My heartfelt prayers and thoughts are extended to you in this most difficult loss.
I know she will be watching over you and guiding you with her love.
Patricia Paruch
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Agnieszka Mroczek-Czetwertyńska posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Dear Tom, Oluszek and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. In these difficult days, much God's support and love. Be strong with your love. We are with you with our thoughts and prayers.
Nasze serca są z Wami w tych trudnych chwilach. Najszczersze wyrazy współczucia.
Agnieszka, Sławek i Asia
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Irene Lahey posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
To Tom, Oliver, and all her family:
I didn’t know Rev. Alison well but we came together at our little church in Catalone. Immediately you knew she was someone special. She had a way about her that left a feeling of peace and kindness in the air. It was wonderful to hear her speak Gaelic, a mother tongue to some of the older members of our church. I know she was a close friend to our minister, Rev. Emily and we all feel her sorrow and loss also. May the beautiful gifts she brought to our earth, not be overshadowed by her great loss, but be used as a springboard to help that work to continue in her name. Our deepest condolences to you all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and may God bless and bring you comfort in the days ahead.
Irene Lahey
MacMillan Memorial United Church
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Linda Yates posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Rev. Allison Etter was one of those ministers who believed in and hoped for the best in her colleagues. In any profession this can be a rare thing. She is a creative, beautiful soul whose leaving this mortal world rends the fabric of it, but whose unique love will continue to build up the quilt of God’s Realm, forever.
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Valerie Barrett posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
So very sorry to her of Alison's passing. She was full of compassion and love for all. Her time spent at United Heritage Church in Sydney was much enjoyed. She brought joy to us in her music and her messages. May she rest in peace.
Valerie (Dingwall) Barrett
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Barbara O’Quinn posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
My deepest condolences to the family, I recently met her in June 2023, A very kind and compassionate person
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Anne Marie CAMPBELL posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Tom, so sorry for your recent loss.
My deepest condolence for you and Alison's Mom and Dad and family. May God give you strength in the days ahead.
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Nancy and Wayne Dickie posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Our Sincere Sympathy to Tom, Oliver and the rest of Allison’s family. Such a sad time for the Etter family of Shubenacadie where I worked for her Late grandmother Cora Etter and was acquainted with her father David at that time. We are so, so sorry for your tremendous loss. Wayne and Nancy Dickie
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Sheila Profit posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Tom Oliver and Family. So sorry for your immense loss. I’ve always heard such wonderful things about Alison. Her spirit is boundless and with you forever. Please take care
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Marvin Lee Anderson posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Our heartfelt condolences to Tom, Oluszek and Alison’s extended family in the wake of her passing.
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Rick McCready posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Such sad news. My condolences to Tom and family.
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Donna Smith-Billard posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
May your force be with us all and help us to continue to strive to make this world a better place. We will lead by your example. Such a beautiful soul ,you will be missed by many. Donna Smith- Billard
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Traci Smith posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Alison was in a clergy cohort I led with new moms who wanted to imagine how to their children with a solid foundation of faith. She was always encouraging to her peers and so full of kind words for all of us.
She had a beautiful smile and presence and such love for her family.
She will be missed.
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Carissa MacInnis posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
Alison and I went to high school together. She was one of the kindest, smartest, and most thoughtful people there. I can still hear her laughter or flute playing as both were magical. Spending time with Alison was like a warm hug, it made you feel good. I've only run into her a few times in Cape Breton but we always enjoyed catching up. I'm sad that won't be possible anymore. My sincere condolences to her family and friends
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Gloria ( Burke ) MacDonald posted a condolence
Sunday, February 18, 2024
My deepest condolences to Alisons Husband, Child, Mom and Dad as I lost my son Danny through illness and turned sepsis. It's going to be a rough ride. May God Bless you all and bring you through your great loss.
May Alison Rest In Peace.
Love from someone who cares immensely, Gloria
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Sunday, February 18, 2024
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Tom and Oliver wishing you Gods Love and support. May your memories bring you peace. Jane Rozeluk-Gagnon
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Irene Sztuka donated to ATLANTIC SCHOOL OF THEOLOGY
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Dear Tom, Oliver and Alison's family - May God comfort you who loved Alison and now feel her loss, and may God bring you courage and strength to overcome your loneliness in this time of trial. Know that I am sending you and your family my thoughts, prayers and deepest condolences - Irene Sztuka (your Aunt and Godmother)
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Betty O’Neill-Allen posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Sincere condolences on the loss of your dear Alison. May all the wonderful memories shared with Allie give you much comfort and peace at this most difficult time. David, your Mom used to talk to me about Alison all the time, she was so very proud of her.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all the family. Betty and Steven Allen, Elmsdale.
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Shauna Walters posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Tom, I am so deeply sorry for the tremendous losses you have experienced this week. Both the CB Post article and the beautiful obituary for your Alison show your tremendous strength and love. May your faith and that strength continue to guide you. Sincere condolences to you and Oliver and your families.
Shauna Walters
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Kristin Sztuka donated to ATLANTIC SCHOOL OF THEOLOGY
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Tom and Oliver, you are in our thoughts and prayers and we send our deepest condolences to you and Alison’s family.
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Liz Melski donated to ATLANTIC SCHOOL OF THEOLOGY
Saturday, February 17, 2024
My sincerest condolences to you, Oluszek (Oliver) and your families. My prayers are with you.
Liz Melski
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Francine Smith posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
When I was in Centre Consolidated School, Alison and her best friend, Kelly, rode on my bus. I was 11 or 12 and she was just a year or two older. She gave me a necklace with the number 13 on it. It was gold and special. She said I should wear it for when I turn 13 and it made me feel so hopeful about the future. We sat together on the bus every day and she was so kind to me. I remember her well because I didn’t have any friends in junior high school. She was one of my first friends. I can still remember her dark green jacket and can see her carrying her musical instrument down the aisle of the bus. She was truly the most loving and accepting person. She was authentic and patient. She always saw the best in everyone. I will never forget that kindness. She and Kelly made my days so much brighter. Then, just a few years ago I went to a teacher’s PD in Cape Breton. I was socializing out and about and ran into her in a big crowd and we instantly recognized one another. She told me about her ministry and I was so proud of her. Alison, you are an angel. But here’s the thing - you always have been an angel. The world needs more of your kind of heart. Thank you for being my friend. Thank you for remembering me all those years later. Knowing you made me a better person. Xo Francine
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Saturday, February 17, 2024
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To her family, our most sincere condolences on this very sad loss. May God’s strength be with all of you during this most difficult and painful time.
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Anita Morrison posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
To Tom and his family, I extend my sincerest condolences on the passing of Allison. Anita.
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Petrina Melski donated to ATLANTIC SCHOOL OF THEOLOGY
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Our sincerest condolences. Thinking of you, Oliver and your family.
Petrina,David and Adrijana
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Derek Elsworth posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Alison had a beautiful personality and presence, exuding innocence, humility, compassion, caring, determination, peace and joy. Her smile and laugh lit up a room. My sympathy to her family and all who loved her. Holding you in thought and prayer. May God comfort and strengthen you.
Rev. Derek Elsworth, St. Mary's NS
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Saturday, February 17, 2024
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Alison rallying the crowd at an Amnesty International AGM in Halifax.
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Sherry Veinot posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
My fondest memories of Alison are of when she attended Trinity United Church with her parents. As a child the love of God shone through her in a way that was different from most people. That is what I remember most about Alison. My deepest condolences to her husband Tom, her son Oliver, her father David and her mother Catherine.
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Perla Macleod posted a symbolic gesture
Saturday, February 17, 2024
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I’m deeply sorry for the lost of a wonderful women, her kindness , her smile will be always remembered. I worked with her in Greenwood church in Baddeck , and was a pleasure always to talk to her . You will be deeply missed , leaving beautiful memories in our community. Condolences to Tom and Oliver you are on my prayers and sending love and light to make this time less heartbreaking. Love Perla , Craig, Mary, Isabella and Alex ❤️
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Saturday, February 17, 2024
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In 2016, I was a member of the Gaelic Ecumenical Choir who took part in Alison and Tom's wedding ceremony at my old church, Greenwood United in Baddeck. I have vivid memories of us having a "singing duel" with the Polish Choir after the service. Alison's engagement and enthusiasm for the revitalisation of Gaelic in Cape Breton was legendary. Her enthusiasm for life in general was palpable wherever one encountered her. This sad news came as a shock and was almost too painful to believe. To say she will be missed by all who knew and loved her would be a massive understatement. Gum bi fois agus sìth maille rid anam a chaoidh, a charaid chòir.
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Wendy Wadden posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
My deepest sympathies to Tom, Oliver and the extended family and friends of Rev. Alison. May her loving spirit guide and provide you strength now and in the days to come.
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Melanie Sampson posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Tom , my sincere condolences for the loss of your wonderful spouse and the mother of your son. May you cherish all your fond memories of her and may God grant you the strength to move forward in these months ahead.
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Pamela Johnson posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
A couple of years ago when my partner's mum died, we were in the middle of a lockdown and couldn't travel to the UK to be with her or our family. Alison met with us online from Cape Breton and prayed with us and gave us words of comfort. She did this without question or hesitation. When we would get together for supper, in Nova Scotia, Alison and I would love to talk about community and world issues. She was uncompromising in her deep empathy and her commitment to social justice. She came into our lives thanks to our friend Tom - her ideal match.
Alison was a deeply loved partner, community & faith leader, scholar, friend, and mum. Sending love and condolences to Alison's big community of friends and family - especially Tom, Olus, and her parents.
She shared this special prayer with us when we needed it. Rest In Peace, dear woman.
Holy One
Light of all healing
Be present with me.
Rooted in your love,
May I be.
Filled with your peace,
May I be.
Illumined by your grace,
May I be.
Kindle my heart
into quiet strength.
Calm my spirit
into restoration.
Touch my life
into wholeness again.
Amen.
- Keri Wehlander
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Robert Stevens posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
I attended Warden United only a few times when visited my brother in Glace Bay.At each service I was inspired deeply by the wonderful spirit of Alison.She truly lived a full and meaningful life and ministry.Our church and community was blessed to have her with us even for too short a time.Peace and blessing to Tom and family. Rev. Bob Stevens
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Greg Smith-Young posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
I did know know Alison, but knew of her and her work. This morning I showed her picture to my mom, with whom I'm visiting, and she instantly remembered Alison leading in worship through dance at the UCW gathering in Sydney a couple years ago. Alison made an wonderful mark on her. We are grateful for her, and grieve with you.
Rev. Greg Smith-Young (Elora, Ontario)
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Kerri posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Although we weren't neighbors for long it was a joy to know you and Tom and your beautiful little boy Oliver Rest easy Alison
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Saturday, February 17, 2024
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Rev. Nick Phillips posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
I so much appreciated having Alison as a colleague in the church. She will be missed by so many.
My prayers are with all the family in these difficult days.
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Donna Lahey posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Dear Tom, Oluszek and family. Our deepest condolences in the passing of Allison. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Brian and Donna Lahey
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Janet Evans posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
I never had the opportunity to meet Rev Allison but felt the overwhelming need to send a message. She sounded like an amazing soul and I would have loved to have had the chance to dive into a conversation with her. May you find comfort in the love you shared,
Janet Evans
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Raza Nadine posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Chère Alison,
Mon cœur a tellement mal aujourd’hui en apprenant ton décès. Je n’ai pas de mots et suis encore sous le choc. Depuis que j’ai appris la nouvelle pleins de souvenirs de toi me reviennent. Ton appel pour m’inviter au cinéma quand je venais juste d’arriver au Canada. Ton rire, te voir manger de la pizza à 8h de matin, ta douceur, ta gentillesse. Je n’étais pas une très bonne amie et je m’en excuse. Tu as tenu ta promesse en venant me voir en France. Tu avais toujours un mot gentil. Merci pour le voyage que nous avons passé ensemble, pour nos conversations, pour ta patience, nos fous rires. Étant maman je ne cesse de penser à ton fils mais aussi ton mari que je porterai dans mes prières. Je t’aime beaucoup ma chère amie
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Rob Fennell posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Our sincere sympathies are with Tom, Oluszek, and all the family. Alison's passing will leave such a huge gap for you; and indeed for all of us who knew, appreciated, and loved her so much. We have wonderful memories of Alison, in conversation, in worship, in class, in musical moments, and more. We are grieving with you and send our love.
Rev. Rob Fennell and Rev. Sally Shaw
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Mike Kelloway posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
My thoughts are with Tom and his family at this time. So very sorry for this loss. Alison was an amazing servant leader. She always put people and community first. What I appreciate most was Alison’s selflessness and ability to inspire. She put forth a legacy we should all inspire to live. Mike Kelloway
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Lyn Duchesney posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
I met Alison when she was Chair of the Hospice Society in Baddeck. From that moment I knew she was a very special person. She had a wry sense of humour, her eyes sparkled with intelligence and one could tell she had a large capacity for compassion. She will be sorely missed. Follow her good example. Deepest sympathy to her loved ones.
Lyn Duchesney
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Saturday, February 17, 2024
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Mitch Cheng-Mader posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Dear Tom and family,
My sincere condolences to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Marion Mitchell posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
I had the privilege of hearing her preside at a family funeral at Knox United, shortly after her arrival to that pulpit. On this single occasion her pastoral abilities, lovely singing voice and kind demeanour left me hopeful not only for the Knox and Warden congregations but the wider Glacé Bay community. My sincere condolences. Marion Mitchell
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Rev. Jun-Hyok Chon posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
I am so very sorry for the loss of such a remarkable minister, mom, and wife. She will be dearly missed. Hugs to her family.
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debbi sobey posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
To All of Alison's family....she was a quiet support for me at a time when I needed her. She supported and assisted without thought of recompense at any level. She will be missed on earth and cherished in Heaven. My very deepest condolences.
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Rev. Ian Smith posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
To All of Alison’s Family … Although I did not know Alison personally, I have been reading tributes to her from fellow United Church colleagues who did know her. She was obviously such a gift to her family, friends, colleagues and community, and she will continue to be a gift as her love for you all permeates your being. That love does not end with death … although it will take each of you time - in your own uniques ways - to weave this experience into the tapestries of your respective lives. May your beloved Alison rest in peace, and may your precious memories of her help to sustain you in the days, weeks, months, and years ahead.
Rev. Ian Smith (Embrun, ON)
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Reverend Lori Beth Sheffield-Bowles posted a condolence
Saturday, February 17, 2024
Alison had a huge spirit. I will always be grateful for getting to know her. She was one of a kind with a unique outlook on life. She made the world a better place and challenged others around her to do their part. I've never met someone with such heart. My prayers are especially with Tom, Oliver and all who loved Alison.
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